Sobriety is Getting the Right Help for You
Before you read this blog you should know something about me. I am not a professional counselor. I am a Pastor who has done plenty of counseling. Some of the counseling I was unqualified to do and...
View ArticleSex + Love = Honoring God on Valentine's Day
Valentine’s Day was never a strong day for me. I recall one particular Valentine’s day I broke up with my girlfriend early in the morning and by nightfall I was with another girl. So of course I’m here...
View ArticleSex + Love = Feeling Lonely
Nobody likes to be alone. At the core of who we are, we all have a desire to experience community, friendship, and love. Sure, each of us has had those moments when you’re annoyed with essentially the...
View ArticleSex + Love = Wanting to Connect With Someone Online
The internet and social media have completely changed the culture and definition of relationships. Whether it’s a dating relationship or just a normal “friendship,” things have changed. Personally,...
View ArticleSex + Love = Pressure to be Romantic on Valentine’s Day
Jeff Fisher from Porn to Purity is here this week to provide some great tips and strategy for dealing with the temptations of Valentines Day.-Brian McGinness
View ArticleSex + Love = Feeling Alone/Wanting to Masturbate
February, the “Love” month. It always amazes me to go to the stores these days the day after any holiday and immediately see the shelves stocked for the next holiday, no matter how far away it is. So...
View ArticleSex + Love = Dealing With Sexy Lingerie Ads
Easy access to porn. As a kid I remember getting shopping ads in the newspaper. While I looked through things I wanted, there was an alternative motive, the lingerie ads. It was one of the first...
View ArticleSex + Love = Feeling I'll Never Measure Up to the Men in the Romantic Books
Does My Wife Love Me or Find Me as Sexy as the Men in Those Romantic Books?This may sound like a strange topic for a blog in the men’s section, I admit that. However, as we find ourselves in the...
View ArticleSex + Love = Wanting to Look at Porn
This can be a lonely time of the year. Perhaps you’re single, and all the Valentine’s Day festivities rub salt in the wound. Or maybe you’re married, and your relationship with your wife is on the...
View ArticleSex + Love = Risky Ads in Newspapers & Every Place I Go
How Can I Think of Sex and Love with My Wife When I Got Those In My Face?If you are a man who’s not a hermit and lives in this highly technical time it is safe to say that you have felt or heard this...
View ArticleSex + Love = Highly Emotional Interactions
Let's try to go beyond the typical Christian answer in this post. Typically a warning about emotional intimacy will describe some unsuspecting Christian couple who intended to stay pure but found...
View ArticleSex + Love = Desires to Act Out Growing Stronger
We join Jeff again this month talking about the struggles we as men deal with during a month of love. Jeff shares with us how to deal with the temptations during this season of love and how that...
View ArticleSex + Love = Taking Unhealthy Risks
Grooming your wife to go places in sex to fulfil your unrealistic sexual desires has got to be one of the most unhealthy risks a recovering sex/porno addict can take in regards to their recovery and to...
View ArticleSex + Love = Unsatisfying Love Life Leading to Porn
We are mistaken if we think sex equals love. Yes, it is an expression of love within a marriage founded on God. But it is not love. And any kind of sex outside of a marriage founded on God is not an...
View ArticleSex + Love = Pressure to Do and Be Sexual
I don’t know about you but I can come up with all kinds of reasons to act out. Got in a fight with my wife - look at some porn. Just lost a key client - chat on-line. Feeling lonely - flirt with the...
View ArticleConfession - My Addiction Is Out of Control
Beep.. beep... beep... 6:15am. The alarm on my phone just went off, time to tackle another day. The sun is up and it's peering through my drapes. The warmth of it reminds me that God has given me...
View ArticleConfession - I've Cheated
I was over in the Confessions section of the site today, and I read this post from a guy who’s in the middle of the fight of his life – a fight for his life.He’s got a wife, two kids, and one more on...
View ArticleConfession: I am Crossing The LIne
I had a conversation with a friend who informed me he was way over the line and he knew it. He just didn’t care; he didn’t want to come back.However, if you are reading this you are not in that place...
View ArticleConfession: I’ve Taken the Wrong Path
In June of 1991, I was a mess.I had barely been married a year and a half, and was binging on porn and masturbation at least once a day. Like most naïve young men I had thought that getting married...
View ArticleConfession: I Cannot Tell Anyone About My Struggle
If there is one thing that is common among guys who struggle with porn usage it is the feeling that they cannot share their struggle with anyone … I mean anyone. Every guy I have ever talked to that...
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